Monthly Archives: June 2008

by phyllis, June 17, 2008

As a member of the Sandwich Generation, you may be used to setting aside your own needs so you can deal with the challenges of children growing up and parents growing older. Taking care of grandchildren because your children can’t, for whatever reasons, adds another layer to a sandwich that may already be difficult to digest. Maintain a bond with your child’s partner and extended family, even if, for the time being, you put these relationships on the back burner. By keeping the lines of communication open, your grandchildren will … Continue reading →

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by phyllis, June 16, 2008

What do you think about celebrities and the media frenzy – especially the focus on B-list bad girls who put the best interests of their children at stake. If young parents act irresponsibly and are unable to care for their children, is it up to their own parents – often hard working, card carrying members of the Sandwich Generation – to step in? An increasing number of boomer grandparents are assuming greater care-giving and financial responsibilities for their grandchildren. Recent statistics indicate that more than 2.9 million grandparents are raising … Continue reading →

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by rosemary, June 13, 2008

This year we have chosen two winners of our Father’s Day contest. Although their entries were very different, we found each of them meaningful and are delighted to share them with you. Please join us in congratulating Lyn and Linda who will each receive a free coaching session from us. We thank all of our readers for their thoughtful contributions. Lyn Godin writes about her father and how he made a difference in the lives of those around him. “In the 50s, my father was a school principal of a … Continue reading →

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by rosemary, June 12, 2008

As Sandwiched Boomers, it’s easy to become weighed down by the duties and responsibilities of caring for an aging father. But as we join together to honor our dad’s on Sunday, lets consider the positive results of this complex relationship as well. See the present challenge as a teachable moment and make the most of learning whatever you can. Apply these lessons to other areas of your life. What insight have you gained about dealing with your own aging process? How can you talk to your children about your wishes … Continue reading →

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