Tag Archives: communication
Yesterday came the official word about what families have sensed for a while – Americans are in the midst of a recession, potentially the worst since the Great Depression. Many people who are normally calm are stressed by the financial meltdown and concerned that they are spiraling out of control. If this sounds familiar, you could be emotionally at risk for harming your children, your spouse or elders under your care. If you are worried about your hostile attitude and aggressive behavior – be it verbal abuse or physical – … Continue reading
Posted in aging parents, parenting kids, sandwich generation, your self
Tagged abuse, children, communication, Elder, Great Depression, recession, Sandwiched Boomers
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There have been non-stop tributes to Tim Russert – from erudite political friends to strangers traveling long distances to pay their respects. He was the toughest interviewer in broadcast journalism and few had come even close to rattling him. He clearly understood how the media game is played. Because he knew an awful lot more, this week we’ll be talking about what you and other Sandwiched Boomers can learn from his legacy and apply to your life. He knew how to be a good son, father and husband. Tim Russert … Continue reading
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Tagged change, communication, family, Sandwiched Boomers, Tim Russert
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Gloria and Marilyn’s article, in closing, suggests that you keep the channels of communication open. Dialoguing and sharing experiences requires listening, not necessarily agreeing. Each party needs to be heard and wants to be understood. The challenge lies in working it out in a way that is respectful to family members. The reality is that being gracious takes less psychic time and energy, and you may indeed grow to like, even love, your parent’s new spouse or partner. Family harmony often means only relatively minor changes in long held perceptions … Continue reading
Today we look over some of the questions that have been raised this week about our tips for improving Sandwiched Boomers communications with loved ones. Some of you have questions about how to get more bang for your buck when talking with your children. Lori says, “I just don’t have the time and energy to fight with my son any more. What can I say to get him to do what I want?” Syd asks how to get her grown offspring to listen to her: “Give me a tool to … Continue reading
