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The Challenge of Improving Your Marriage
As you begin to work at improving your marriage, think back to when you first met your partner. Do you remember what originally attracted you to him? Was it a strong character, fierce independence, a decisive nature? Now, these qualities may suddenly be getting in the way of getting along. You may want to take a look at what has changed in your relationship so you can come to terms with your negative feelings. But that’s not all there is to it. Try to recognize your own role in what’s … Continue reading
Taking Staycations in this Economic Environment
With the summer solstice arriving this past weekend, we can now officially be in summer vacation mode. With the most time between sunrise and sunset, we have more daylight hours to spend with our families. But with the unemployment rate above 11% in California and many other states and the recession not showing signs of an early end, everyone feels the need to cut back on expenses. The Auto Club estimates that the traditional vacation in the U.S. costs an average of $244 per day for two people just for … Continue reading
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Tagged economy, family in flux, Her Mentor Center, Sandwiched Boomer, staycation, sunset
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Intimate Relationships We Share with Men
With the divorce rate continuing to hover around 50%, understanding between the sexes is worth the effort it takes from both partners. Encouraging love and forgiveness can sometimes be difficult when men and women tend to cope with the stresses between them differently. While women generally feel more comfortable talking with their spouses about what is bothering them, men often withdraw and pull away to think about – rather than talk about – the issues. This can lead to each making mistakes in the way they interpret each other’s actions. … Continue reading
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Tagged divorce, Her Mentor Center, intimacy, men, relationship, women
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Optimism in Tough Times
Optimism is key if couples are to move ahead in tough times. Coca-Cola’s history of positive messaging is legendary. During the recession of 1980, consumers were reminded to “Have a Coke and a smile.” But we all know it takes more than a coke and a smile. Try to access your money script, which is governed by a process outside consciousness in the part of the brain called the amygdale. By understanding how your family of origin dealt with money – and your emotional reaction to it – you’ll gain … Continue reading
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Tagged Coca Cola, fight inertia, finances, Her Mentor Center, money script, optimism, tough times
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