How to Care for a Parent with Alzheimer’s

Here are some more suggestions for Sandwiched Boomers to improve the way you talk with your loved ones suffering from Alzheimer’s. Keeping your communications direct will help them focus better.

Avoid asking questions when possible. If you need to, provide limited choices. Give your loved one the time to answer – don’t interrupt them or fill in words.

Tell loved ones exactly what you want them to do. Don’t tell them more than you need to. Don’t try to reason with them. Provide answers and solutions.

Don’t become argumentative. Don’t threaten them. Don’t correct them even when they say something in error.

Accept that they will repeat their questions and that you need to repeat your answers. Don’t say, “I just told you that.” If you feel yourself getting angry after the same question is repeated numerous times, take a deep breath, count to ten or remove yourself briefly if possible.

Try to focus on positive topics. Use music as an aid to reaching out to your loved one. Talk about good memories from the past – you both will enjoy it.

Schedule in respite care to refresh yourself. Just as the airline stewards remind us, you need to put on your own oxygen mask before taking care of others who depend upon you.

Clicking on the title above will take you to an article on www.HerMentorCenter.com with some ideas about how to treat your aging mom, not only on Mother’s Day but every day, Nurturing Your Mom on Mother’s Day with More Than Chocolates.

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