The 19th century English poet, Lord Alfred Tennyson, put this universal truth in writing: “In the spring, a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love.” And we all know there’s no better time for a royal wedding. Apparently the April 29 marriage of Prince William of Wales and Kate Middleton, at Westminster Abbey with 1900 guests, will be watched by almost 2 billion people worldwide. Their long walk to the altar will be one of the most viewed TV events of the century.
Lots of girls grow up reading fairy tales about princesses and hoping to find a prince of their own. But living life in the limelight can make it hard to build a successful relationship. Whether your marriage will last depends, in part, on how you prepare for the challenges. Some of the following tips may be helpful to you and the young royals:
Don’t surrender your self. Carve out a space in the marriage, keeping the activities and friendships that make you who you are. Take positive action in your own life. You’ll have a more positive attitude, be interesting to your partner, and your relationship will reap the benefits.
Keep your communication honest. Talk out misunderstandings before they become full-fledged arguments. Be patient and let go of issues that aren’t crucial. And stay engaged. Use the same conversational etiquette that you would with anyone else you care about and respect.
Try to compromise. Be direct, yet open and flexible as you make your way through disagreements. Truly understanding the other point of view can help resolve a conflict more easily and quickly. A gentle touch or a quick hug releases oxytocin, a hormone that facilitates bonding as well as reduces stress levels.
Be sure to come back on Wednesday, as we’ll have additional tips for the royal couple. And if you’re interested in more information about relationships and conflict resolution, click here – Her Mentor Center.com has lots of articles in Family Relationships and Newsletter Library .
